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Linda (“Lin”) Nelms
APRIL 5, 1948 - december 4, 2023

Nelms, Linda (“Lin”) Ovelyn, 75, of Leesburg, Florida, passed away on Monday, December 4, 2023. A Miami native, Lin was in the first graduating class of Miami Coral Park Senior High School. She attended Scarritt-Bennett College for Christian Workers in Nashville, graduating with a Bachelors and Masters in Christian Education. She worked as a Christian educator in Rome, Georgia, and Haines City, Palma Ceia in Tampa, and Miami, Florida. Lin worked as a secretary and event planner in Miami and Coral Gables. After marrying her husband, Darrell, and having a son, Jonathan, Lin earned another Master’s Degree in Education from Florida International University. She worked as a library media specialist for Miami-Dade Public Schools for nineteen years. Lin was an Alpha Delta Kappa sister and former chapter president. After retiring from Pine Lake Elementary she deepened her involvement with her church, First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables. In 2017, Lin moved with her husband to Leesburg, FL, where she was active in Morrison United Methodist Church and in the Fellowship of Worship Artists. Lin loved the natural world and travel. She loved orchids, fabric crafts, and finely wrought ornaments and place settings. She loved music; she sang and she played the viola and handbells. Lin is predeceased by parents Ralph and Sarah Nelms, and survived by her husband, Darrell Miles, and her son, Jonathan Miles.

A Memorial Service will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, December 16, in the Sanctuary at Morrison United Methodist Church in Leesburg. Following the service, the family will receive friends in the Family Life Center. The service will be live-streamed at http://watchmorrison.com/ and will be available for viewing throughout that day only.

In lieu of flowers, please make donations to Morrison United Methodist Church, 1005 W. Main St., Leesburg, FL 34748, marked for the music ministry.

Arrangements entrusted to Beyers Funeral Home of Leesburg, Florida.

James Larry Rutherford
April 6, 1946 - November 16, 2023

Larry Rutherford, 77, of Coral Gables, Florida, passed away on November 16, 2023. Born on April 6, 1946, in Baldwyn, Mississippi, Larry, also known as James Larry Rutherford, lived a remarkable life that touched the hearts of many.

Larry's business activities made a profound impact on the lives of numerous individuals throughout his career. He was a man of great generosity and dedication, leaving behind a legacy that will be remembered for years to come.

Larry is survived by his beloved wife, Shelley Daniel Rutherford, his son Thad Rutherford and wife Melissa, his grandsons Coleman Rutherford and Quinn Rutherford, his stepson Beck Daniel and wife Stephanie, his stepson Trevor Daniel and wife Meagan, and his brother-in-law Eddie Cravedi and his nephew Bryson Maslow. He was preceded in death by his daughter Alison Rutherford, his mother Mary Jo Barnes, his sister Markie Cravedi, and his niece Kristen Maslow.

Larry's educational journey began at Maury High School in Norfolk, Virginia, where he graduated in 1963. He then went on to attend the Virginia Military Institute, graduating in 1967 and eventually joining the Hall of Fame of VMI. He also attained a MBA from The Darden School of Business at University of Virginia.

In service to his country, Larry proudly served as a US Army 2nd Lieutenant during the Vietnam War from 1969 to 1970. His military associations were a significant part of his life, and his dedication to duty and honor will always be remembered including his award of the Bronze and Silver star for combat.

Larry's career was equally remarkable. He held several notable positions, including CEO for Gulfstream, General Development Corporation, and Atlantic Gulf Communities. In 1999, he founded his own development firm, Southstar Development Partners. Throughout his career, Larry operated as a developer in North Carolina, Georgia, Florida, and Texas, leaving his mark on the landscape of these regions.

Beyond his professional achievements, Larry had a passion for various hobbies. He loved to travel with his wife, play golf, go boating, and enjoyed reading. These activities brought him joy and enriched his life.

Services to honor Larry's memory will be held at First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables on Saturday, January 13, 2024, at 11:30am.

Larry Rutherford will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all those whose lives he touched. His memory will forever be cherished, and his contributions will continue to inspire generations to come.

Karl Smiley, MD
August 22, 1937 - October 13, 2023

Dr. Karl Smiley passed away peacefully from cancer at home on October 13, 2023, at the age of 86, surrounded by his family. He was born to Nixon Smiley and Evelyn Clayton Smiley at Miami Jackson Memorial Hospital, on August 22, 1937. Karl was raised in Miami, but moved to Waynesville, and Morehead City, NC, for a short period of time when Nixon enlisted into the Marines in WW II. He and his mother returned to Miami-Dade County after Nixon was deployed to Okinawa. Karl earned his Boy Scout Eagle Award, graduated from Coral Gables Senior High, and Duke University, as a member of the Sigma Chi Fraternity. He graduated from Emory University School of Medicine in 1963 in the top 10% of his class and as vice president of Alpha Omega Alpha Medical Scholastic Honor Society.

Karl met Charlotte Stoker in 1959 at First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables. They married there in 1960 and moved back to Emory. They were married for over 63 years. He interned in Houston through the Baylor University program then completed his 4-year surgical residency at Parkland Memorial Hospital, Univ. of Texas Southwestern Medical School, in Dallas, TX. He served 2 years as Lieutenant Commander,assistant chief of surgery at the US Public Health Service Hospital in Seattle, WA. Afterward he served a fellowship in cardio-vascular surgery under Dr. Stanley Crawford in Houston.

In 1971 Karl began private practice as a general and vascular surgeon in Miami. He was Chief of Surgery, Chief of Staff, and on the Board of Governors for Doctors’ Hospital, Coral Gables. Karl also operated (Variety/Miami Childrens) Nicklaus Children’s, South Miami, and Baptist Hospitals. He retired from surgery in 2002. He then served as a member of the Board of Directors for Baptist Health South Florida Doctors Hospital. He continued interpreting blood flow studies at BHSF Doctors Hospital for the non-invasive vascular lab, which he founded in 1975.

Karl served as President of the Greater Miami Chapter of the American College of Surgeons, the Miami Medical Form, and the Board of Directors of the Montgomery Botanical Center. He was a member of the Board of Trustees at Fairchild Tropical Botanical Gardens and President of the Board of Governors of the Dr. John T. MacDonald Foundation Health Systems, which gave grants to medically oriented non-profit groups. Their largest two fundings went to establishing school-based health clinics in the North Miami Beach area with the UM Dept. of Pediatrics and the JTMD Department of Human Genetics at the UM School of Medicine.

Karl enjoyed with his family boating, waterskiing, botany, hiking, golfing, skiing, traveling, volunteering at the Montgomery Botanical Center, and vacationing in destinations centered around nature and historical sites. Karl is survived by his devoted wife Charlotte, their four loving sons and daughter: Tom (Betsy), Scott (MaryAnne), Mark (Elizabeth), and Laura (Jerry) Bryant; and his 5 grandchildren, Kyle Smiley, Brandon (Julia) Smiley and Jake, Anna, and Isabel Bryant. He is pre-deceased by infant grandson Christian Jackson Smiley.

Service will be held at First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables on November 12 at 2:30 PM. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Montgomery Botanical Center.

Helen Elizabeth “Betty” Bunten
February 13, 1934 - September 26, 2023

Helen Elizabeth “Betty” Bunten (née Leonard) passed away on September 26, 2023.  She was 89.

Betty Bunten was born on February 13, 1934 in Cedarhurst, NY to Harold Leonard and Helen Elizabeth Leonard, after whom she was named, in the house that her grandfather built.  Betty had a sister, Jeanne Leonard, who died of cystic fibrosis at the age of 7.  Betty graduated from high school and passed the New York Regency Design Board with a score of 98%, and then went to work for a cosmetics company.

She married Charles Bunten, Jr., a U.S. Marine, on July 8, 1951, and then moved to Miami where he became an airline mechanic.  Betty had three children: Charles, Bruce, and Jeanne.  After raising her children, Betty went to work as a bookkeeper for a drug store, and then an accounts payable professional at Miami-Dade Community College, from which she retired after serving over 20 years.

Betty was an athletic woman who loved horseback riding and rollerskating.  She was a bronze medalist in dance rollerskating in a national competition.  She was an avid reader her whole life, and a Civil War buff.

But mostly, Betty was known for being a woman with the heart of Christ.  She was a member of First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables for 23 years, and helped lead the Silver Club ministry.  She had an easygoing manner and was a great conversationalist.  She was naturally gregarious and people easily trusted her.

Betty is predeceased by her husband, father, mother and sister.  She is survived by her three children, Charles Bunten, Rev. Bruce Bunten, and Jeanne Bunten; eight grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.  Betty will be missed by all who knew her.

A memorial will be held at First UMC of Coral Gables on October 7 at 4pm.  In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to her beloved church,First UMC of Coral Gables.

Katherine Louise Vaughn
February 24, 1983 - May 17, 2023

Katherine Louise Vaughn was born the youngest of three children in Miami, Florida, to Joe and Bonnie Vaughn.  She passed away unexpectedly at the age of 40.

Katie graduated from Coral Gables Senior High before attending Florida State University, where she earned a degree in Fine Arts. She then completed a two-year course at the Art Institute of Fort Lauderdale, where she was selected as an Outstanding Student with a Top Portfolio, graduating with honors.

She later decided to pursue a career in nursing.  She excelled at science classes at Broward Community College before advancing to the University of Miami, where she received a Bachelor in Science degree in Nursing.

During the COVID pandemic, she worked at Jackson Hospital as a Registered Nurse.  Katie felt drawn to working with patients experiencing emergency conditions, and so began the two-year acute care nurse practitioner program at Barry University.  She completed the academic year having received all As, and was ready to start clinical studies.  She had been looking forward to the White Coat Ceremony the following Monday that would mark her transition from academic work to clinical practice, when she passed away suddenly.

Katie leaves behind her fiancé of eight years, Erik Slemon, with whom she was planning marriage and a family; her parents, Joe and Bonnie Vaughn; her older brothers, Stephen and Christopher Vaughn; and her many friends at First Coral Gables, where she was a member of youth group and children’s choir.  Barry University held the White Coat Ceremony in Katie’s honor, and her white coat was presented to her fiancé and to her mother.

A private ceremony was held for her at the Vaughn home.

Peter T. Pruitt, Sr.
November 15, 1932 - May 20, 2023

Peter Taliaferro Pruitt, a cherished resident of Vero Beach, Florida and Cashiers, North Carolina, as well as a former resident of Darien, Connecticut and Miami, Florida, passed away on May 20, 2023, age 90.  Peter leaves behind a loving family including Shirley, his devoted wife of 69 years, their three children, Peter Pruitt Jr., Martha Pruitt Mathews and John Pruitt, as well as eight grandchildren and six great-grandchildren.

Peter was born in Miami Shores, Florida, the youngest of three sons of Frank O. and Martha Lowe Pruitt.  He graduated from Miami Edison High School in 1950. He pursued higher education at Southern Methodist University and the University of Florida, where he completed his Bachelor of Science in Business Administration and met his bride, Shirley. Peter was an active member of Phi Delta Theta fraternity during his college years. Later on, he furthered his education through the Harvard Business School Advanced Management Program, which he always felt equipped him with vital management skills that propelled his professional journey.

After their wedding, Peter and Shirley headed to Tyndall Air Force Base, where Peter served as 2nd Lieutenant in the United States Air Force and Base Squadron Commander. Following his active duty, he continued to serve in the Air Force reserves, ultimately retiring with the rank of Captain.

Peter spent his entire career in the insurance industry, starting with his father’s insurance agency at Frank O. Pruitt & Son in Miami, Florida. He later became a prominent aviation and marine insurance broker at Parker & Co., marking the beginning of his enduring association with Lloyd's of London.  He subsequently held various senior executive positions at Frank B. Hall & Co. (now Aon), ultimately serving as President and Chief Operating Officer. A high point at Frank B. Hall was his time in London directing the integration of Leslie & Godwin, a storied Lloyd’s broker acquired by Hall that began placing specialty insurance during the reign of Queen Victoria.  

From 1995 until his retirement, Peter served as Chairman of Willis Re (now Gallagher Re), steering the company's growth into a leading global reinsurance broker. In addition to Willis Re, he served as a director of Willis Faber Dumas, Swett and Crawford and Platinum Underwriters.

Among his achievements, prompted by a deadly fire on a vessel owned by one of his insurance clients, Peter was instrumental in making the “muster drill” a requirement for passengers on ocean-going vessels, now well-known to travelers on cruise ships.   

Throughout his distinguished career, Peter assumed leadership roles in numerous business, civic and charitable organizations. He contributed his expertise and time as a trustee or council member of esteemed institutions such as the Economic Club of New York, the Business Committee of the New York Zoological Society (now the Wildlife Conservation Society), the Young Presidents Organization, Kiwanis Club, the Business Council for the United Nations and the Business Advisory Council of the University of Florida. Peter was also a trustee of the College of Insurance (now the St. John's University Greenberg School of Risk Management, Insurance and Actuarial Science), the Insurance Institute of America, the American Institute of Chartered Property Casualty Underwriters and the Brokers & Reinsurance Markets Association.

Peter's dedication to philanthropy shone brightly as he served as President of the Easter Seals Society of Florida (formerly known as the Crippled Children's Society) and he was a valued member of the Orange Bowl Committee.  An avid tennis player, Peter embraced club life, finding fulfillment through his memberships at the Johns Island Club (Vero Beach, FL), Wee Burn Country Club (Darien, CT),  Metropolitan Club (NYC),  Cedar Creek Racquet Club (Cashiers, NC), Wildcat Cliffs Country Club (Highlands, NC), Riviera Country Club (Coral Gables, FL) and Biscayne Bay Yacht Club (Coconut Grove, FL).

Peter Pruitt will be fondly remembered for his high energy, drive and positive outlook on life.  He was always on the go. If  there was an event, he would be there.  He loved to travel, whether for work or with family and friends.  He had the ability to charm whomever he met through humor, playfulness and a genuine interest in people.  He acquired but never lost friendships throughout his life.  Most important to him was time with and interest in his growing family.  Always a gentleman, his passing leaves a void in the hearts of all who knew him.

His family extends special thanks for the loving care he received from care providers at Somerset House at Oak Harbor and the Visiting Nurse Association of Indian River County.

A memorial service to celebrate Peter's life will be held at 1:00 pm on Friday, June 16 at the chapel at the First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables, Florida, located at 536 Coral Way, Coral Gables.  In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made in Peter's honor to VNA & Hospice Foundation,  1110 35th Lane, Vero Beach, FL 32960 or  https://vnatc.org/waystogive/memorials-and-honorariums/.

As we bid farewell to Peter, let us carry his spirit of friendship, optimism and manners within us, ensuring that his legacy lives on in the way we touch the lives of others.

George Alvin Huskins, Jr.
June 7, 1937 - April 17, 2023

George Huskins passed away at home at the age of 85, surrounded by his family.

George was born in NuMine, Pennsylvania to Mildred & George Huskins, Sr. He was one of five siblings, which included William, Robert, Edward and Shirley. He served in the U.S. Army, and fought in the Vietnam War.

George was a family man, spending all his spare time with his wife of 40 years, Julia; his children, Dulcie, Crystal, Benjamin, and Morgan; and his grandchildren, Onika, Haylie, Hunter, and Coral. He had been a member of First Coral Gables for over 30 years. George loved God, family, country, fishing, and friends, and will be missed by all who knew him. He will be given a military burial in Dunbar, West Virginia.

Allan P. Heard
February 6, 1934 - April 14, 2023

Allan P. Heard, (89) of Ormond Beach, Florida passed away on 14 April 2023. He is survived by his loving and devoted wife of 66 years, LaTrisia Kinney Heard, their three sons, Stephen, Kevin, and Keith, three daughters-in-law Mary-Catherine, Janet, and Renee, and six grandchildren Kaycie, Stephen, Jenna Le, Jacqueline, Shannon and Ethan, two great grandsons Conall, Rowan and one great granddaughter, Jubilee, expected on July 5, 2023. Allan was preceded in death by his parents, Joseph G. Heard and Ruth Jacobi Heard, brother Joseph Heard, and sisters Beverly Venning and Jane Askew.

Allan was born February 6, 1934, in Coral Gables, Florida, attended Dade County schools, and learned to sail at the Coconut Grove Sailing Club. He acquired an early love of flying from watching (and dodging) the historic aircraft operations transiting Dinner Key. He was student body president at Shenandoah Junior High and was Drum Major of the Miami High School Band. He worked full-time nights at the Miami office of the FBI while earning his degree at the University of Miami. During his senior year in 1956 he met LaTrisia Kinney, who was the reigning Miss Miami that year. They were married just prior to his graduation, and she pinned his wings in June of 1958. Allan went on active duty with the U.S. Air Force in 1960. Along with strategic flying assignments, he was selected for diplomatic posting as an Air Attaché in the U.S. Embassy in Buenos Aires, Argentina. He served in Vietnam during 1969 and 1970 where he flew over 200 combat missions and 5,000 hours of flying time. His decorations include two Legions of Merit Medals, two Distinguished Flying Crosses, the Spanish Aeronautical Cross and six air medals. After Vietnam, Allan was assigned to the Air Staff in the Pentagon. He became the Chief of the International Affairs Division, with responsibilities in foreign disclosure and licensing of aerospace technology, foreign military sales. He was official liaison with foreign governments diplomatically accredited in Washington D.C. Allan was engaged in foreign base rights negotiations and prominently involved in the NATO decision to purchase the U.S. made F-16 fighter over its French competitor. He holds a Master of Science degree in International Affairs from George Washington University and graduated from the National War College. He earned the rank of Colonel in the Air Force, but due to health reasons, Allan retired in 1979 and joined the Wackenhut Corporation as Vice President of International Development at its headquarters in Coral Gables. He became Vice President, Wackenhut International Inc., and later, President of The Wackenhut Systems Corporation, a position he held until retiring in March of 1983.

In 1986, Allan became President and Chief Executive Officer of MILRET, Inc. d/b/a Travel Shop 1 of Coral Gables and of ALA Security Systems, a security systems consultancy.

Allan was a past President of the Coral Gables People to People Program, past president of the Army Navy Club and past Chair of the Chamber of Commerce Committee of 21. As a member the Rotary Club of Coral Gables he served as International Vice Chairman. He served on the Board of Adjustment, was a member of Public Safety Committee, President and board member of Coral Gables Citizen’s Crime Watch, board member, Emergency Management Division member, Ponce Development Board and Chairman of the Citizens’ Golf Committee. He has twice been the recipient of the Key to the City of Coral Gables for his civic involvement. Additionally, he was a board member of the Kappa Sigma Alumni Association, a life member of the Army Navy Club, Washington, D.C., member, Riviera Country Club, Coral Gables, and a past President of the Country Club of Coral Gables where, as a member of the men’s golf association, he was Club Champion nine times. He also holds memberships in the Military Officers’ Association of America, The Military Order of World Wars and the Air Force Association. 

Louis J. Tash, Jr.
October 14, 1926 - March 13, 2023

Beloved father, mentor and Tash Patriarch, Louis J Tash, has transitioned to the heavenly realm.

Born as Louis John Tash Jr. in Highstown, New Jersey on Oct 14, 1926, he was a twin whose brother died at birth. Lou excelled in history and was the editor of his high school paper. He graduated from Rutgers University, and married the love of his life, Jane Farr, while she attended Smith college.

He often told stories of how they enjoyed their courtship and they would spend each weekend dancing together.

When he returned from military service in the Korean War, they decided to move to South Florida to start a family. Lou worked for Eastern Airlines and Jane was an elementary school teacher until she retired to raise her own children in 1959. They had three children—Warren, Susanna and David—and they did everything together as a family.

Lou continued to be very active in his children’s lives and took them traveling extensively throughout the world: Greece, Egypt, Europe and Bermuda, to name just a few. The family also enjoyed camping and took the children on many road trips during summer vacation to visit every state by camper ! Lou & Jane also loved to travel as a couple, and with other couples and friends, and always said they wanted to get back to their favorite trip, safari in Kenya. They also enjoyed the cruises that they took with friends & family to Alaska and through the Panama Canal. Lou and Jane lived a rich full life.

In later years, Lou was lay leader at South Miami Methodist. Both he and Jane volunteered many hours to Habitat for Humanity building houses in our neighborhood as part of a continuing church mission. His pastor there left me this remembrance: "A most wonderful, loving, Christian man that always modeled everything good for others to see. He loved his wife and family more than words can say, but he also looked out for anyone he knew and those he saw in need."

We are having a celebration of life gathering at 3:00pm on April 15 at All America Park, 6931 SW 64th Court, South Miami 33143. All are welcome to attend. In place of gifts or flowers, we will accept remembrance donations in his name to Habitat for Humanity of Greater Miami. For more information, contact Warren Tash at (310) 880-3252.

Dorothy Stein
September 24, 1933-February 22, 2023

It is with great sadness that we share the passing of our beloved mother and grandmother, Dorothy McDaniel Stein. She had suffered a broken hip from a fall six months prior, and passed away peacefully in her sleep on Wednesday, February 22nd.

Since 1968, Dorothy owned and managed Futures Personnel Consultants, a personnel placement agency of which she was very proud. She specialized in helping young college graduates improve their resumes, their image and interviewing skills, and find jobs in corporate Fortune 500 companies. Many candidates she placed in these entry level sales, marketing and management jobs went on to high level positions in many of those companies and beyond. Many of the young, energetic people who came to work for Dorothy have called her a mentor, helping them grow in their professional careers and move on to bigger and better things. In social circles, Dorothy was very involved in many groups and activities, including the Miami Ski Club, the Coral Gables Garden Club, the Coral Gables Music Club, and the former Country Club of Coral Gables. She was indeed the "Perle Mesta" of Coral Gables, the "hostess with the mostess" and enjoyed holding parties for any occasion in her home.

Dorothy was born in New Orleans, Louisiana, to a Baptist minister. She is survived by her two children, Sharon Watson and Dillon Graham (Marilyn), and their children: Brandon Watson, Shannon Watson, Lucas Graham and Lea Graham; all of whom she loved dearly. She had just been blessed with new granddaughter-in-law Melanie, which she was so happy to see wed Brandon months before her passing.

Dorothy was married to her beloved Berman for 30 years. They were partners in every way. Berman became a partner in Dorothy's business and it expanded and flourished. Berman was outgoing and larger than life and the perfect husband for Dorothy. They had an amazing life in their 30 years of marriage. From Berman, she had stepson William B. Stein (Leslie), and grandchildren Blaine and William, in addition to stepson Thomas Stein, and stepdaughter Edith Brett and husband Steven. After the death of Berman, she was blessed to have George Weil come in to her life. They were devoted companions for 20 years. George was cosmopolitan and international. He spoke at least 7 languages which added an extra dimension to their continued travels. He brought Dorothy great joy.

A celebration of life will take place on Saturday, March 4th at 2:30pm at First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables. Information about the service, including a livestream link for those not local to South Florida, is available here: https://www.welovecoralgables.org/memorial

In lieu of flowers, donations would be appreciated to the Advocates PTA Scholarship Fund. (Daughter, Sharon, is chair of the Miami Dade PTA Scholarship Program.)

George Waugh
July 9, 1930-February 17, 2023

George Waugh, 92, of Lexington, KY, passed away on Friday, February 17, 2023.

George spent most of his life living in Florida before moving to KY to reside for the last few years of his life. George is survived by his children, Karen Waugh and Barry (Sandy) Waugh; granddaughter Heather (John); great grandchildren, Hazel and Sylvia; siblings, Shirley (Jack) Noffsinger and Evelyn (Sam) Taylor; as well as many friends and loved ones.

George was preceded in death by his wife, Margie, as well as his parents, George Sr. and Lucille Cable Waugh. Visitation will be held at Kerr Brothers Funeral Home Harrodsburg Road on Tuesday February 21, 2023 from 5pm-7pm. A graveside service will be held in North Carolina at a later date this month. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Apostles Anglican Church of Lexington, KY.

Carolyn Hughes Davenport
July 17, 1929 - February 14, 2023

Carolyn Davenport was born and raised in Benton, Arkansas, the daughter of John L. Hughes and Bess Barrow Hughes. She attended Lindenwood College for Girls in St. Charles, Missouri and graduated from the University of Southern California as a piano major. In 1955, she married O. William Davenport, M.D. in Arkansas, and in 1956, they moved to Miami where he practiced Ob-Gyn.

Carolyn taught piano and played Duo-Piano professionally. Her compositions have won state and national awards and have been performed in Carnegie Hall and Lincoln Center. Her compositions are classical, but her favorite music was jazz. She was on the Board of the Dranoff Foundation, a member of the National League of American Penwomen, Gilded Lillies and past-president of Coral Gables Music Club, where, for over 50 years, she helped raise money for young musicians' scholarships. She co-authored shows for various organizational fundraisers and was a member of First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables.

Carolyn's life was the epitome of kindness, love and unselfishness. She never complained, but was a most gracious and appreciative individual who always made others around her feel valued and loved. She was a simple lady, yet brilliant, clever and witty! She is survived by her son, William Hughes Davenport, M.D. of Palm City (Cathy), and grandchildren, Will Conner Davenport (30) and Holly Hughes Davenport (23). She was predeceased by her husband of 47 years, O. William Davenport, M.D. A private service will be held in Arkansas.

Esther C. Cardella
November 23, 1939 - December 27, 2022

Esther possessed a most generous, kind and giving spirit. Her smile and generous heart were an inspiration to all those who got to know her. Esther was a deeply spiritual woman whose unbending faith in God helped her deal with and overcome the many challenges she endured during her life. Psalm 23 was one of her favorites.

Born in Niquero, Oriente, Cuba, Esther began facing life’s struggles early on when at the tender age of 2 years, she was afflicted with what was then an incurable and debilitating disease, poliomyelitis. Despite all of the physical ailments she endured, she possessed an indomitable spirit that led her to pursue her dream of becoming a pharmacist. She ultimately obtained a pharmacology degree at the University of Havana.

Upon arriving in the United States in 1964, Esther set out to become a fully licensed pharmacist in this country. She achieved that goal, and subsequently opened her own business, Cardella Pharmacy, which she operated for 30 years. There she not only filled medications but provided needed advice to clients who sought her out for her expertise and compassion.

A Renaissance woman, Esther was not only highly intelligent, but her talents also went beyond the scientific and into the arts. She was a piano and guitar player and an accomplished painter. Her artwork still brings the family much joy today. Her beautiful face and voice radiated goodness, along with her hearty contagious laugh. There was much happiness and peace in her presence.

Esther was a constant source of support to her parents, Sara and Rafael, now both deceased; to her Aunt Elvira “La China," deceased; to her loving sister Sara, who was always there for her; to her brothers Rafael and Isidro (Tony); and to her many nieces and nephews. The Cardella family is eternally grateful to Mirta (Nani) and Gloria Perez, who provided the best care for Esther during her illness and final days.

In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables, online at welovecoralgables.org/give or mailed to 536 Coral Way, Coral Gables, FL 33134.

Roy D. Neal, Jr.
February 14, 1926 - October 14, 2022

Roy D. Neal Jr. passed away at the age of 96 on October 14, 2022, at his home in Coral Gables.  He is survived by his wife, Dollie S. Neal; nieces Carole Grimsley and Janice Martin, and their families.

Roy was born on Valentine’s Day 1926 in St. Petersburg, FL, to Roy D. Neal Sr. and Fay E. Neal. He attended school in St. Petersburg, FL, and studied at the University of Miami and the University of South Carolina, where he earned a degree in Naval Science.  Roy was stationed in the Philippines as a Lieutenant in the Navy during WWII.  He attended graduate school at Emory University, where he was a member of Sigma Chi fraternity, elected to Beta Gamma Sigma national honorary fraternity and graduated with a BBA degree in 1949.

Roy was well respected in his career in the municipal bond business and as an investment banker, working in Atlanta, on Wall Street, and in Miami. He served as President of the Florida Securities Dealers Association.  He retired from Wellington Shields Investment firm in 2021.  

Roy married his lovely wife, Dollie, in November of 1969.  Roy enjoyed golf and ballroom dancing, as well as being an avid reader, an accomplished musician, and song writer.  Roy is past president of The Country Club of Coral Gables.  Roy and Dollie attended First UMC of Coral Gables. 

At his request, no service will be held.  A private memorial is planned.

Juanita Rafield Long
July 11, 1932 - September 29, 2022

Juanita N. Rafield Long, age 90, passed into her Savior’s loving arms on September 29 2022 in Nashville, TN. She is survived by her second husband, Gordon Long; daughter Charmione (Steve) Moore; 3 grandsons, Remick Moore, Sterling Moore, Hunter Moore; 3 great-grandchildren, Ever Moore, Atlas Moore, Mason Moore; Brothers, Marshall Nunn (Donna), Ray Nunn; and sister, Eva Goddard (Jeff). She is preceded in death by parents, James and Clarice Nunn; 1st husband, Lawrence A V Rafield; daughter, Felecia Rafield; Sister, Celina Dadone; brothers, Tommy Nunn, Jay Nunn, Franklin Nunn & Roland Nunn.

Juanita was raised in Biscayne Park, Florida, one of 9 children. She graduated from the University of Miami with both undergraduate and graduate degrees in Music. She taught all levels of school, but the largest part of her career was as choral director at Coral Gables High School. She loved teaching, putting on Broadway shows annually and earning top honors at the region and state levels with the choirs. Not only did she teach students about music, but faith and life lessons as well.

She has traveled to every continent and loved to sew, play piano & harp and spend time with her family. She was a strong Christian who lived out her faith in front of others and relied on Her Savior every step of the way.

Marshall Smith
March 3, 1961 - September 22, 2022

Marshall Graham Smith—husband, father, brother, uncle, friend and raconteur—passed away suddenly on Thursday, September 22, 2022. Born on March 3, 1961 in Walter Reed Hospital to Dr. Alfred and Libby Smith, Marshall grew up in Coral Gables, Florida. Accompanied by his father, Marshall sowed his lifelong passion for the game of golf at the nearby Granada Golf Course, which culminated this year with his first ever hole in one.

After graduating from Coral Gables High School and Florida State University, he returned to Coral Gables and started his career in commercial mortgage banking. Marshall spent the majority of his career with Thomas D. Wood & Co. While career was important to Marshall, his first and fullest love was his family. He married the love of his life, Morgan Park Smith, on September 7, 2002 in Asheville, North Carolina. True to form, they left their Biltmore Forest Country Club wedding reception in a decorated golf cart. The newlyweds enjoyed an unforgettable honeymoon in Italy, enchanted by the beauty of the country. Morgan and Marshall especially loved their memorable time in Positano, and were able to return to Italy just this month to celebrate their 20th wedding anniversary, this time in the company of good friends, and adding Capri and Ravello to their favorite places.

Marshall's family expanded with the births of his beloved children, Kirksey Margret Smith and Walker Park Smith. Marshall, Morgan and their children all shared a passion for boating and the water. Nothing made Marshall happier than to gather on his boat for a glorious afternoon on Biscayne Bay, staying out to watch the sunset, preferably with good friends at Stiltsville, or on Buttonwood Sound behind his family's private paradise, their weekend home at Buttonwood Bay. Last year, the family designed their own burgee, depicting four waves for the four family members' love of being on the water, as well as a hot pink ball representing Marshall's passion for the sunset and love of the game of golf. Marshall proudly sported the burgee on his golf shirts, hats, bags, and cups; and their family burgee adorns the bar at Coral Reef Yacht Club.

Marshall relished his family time, be it watching his beautiful daughter Kirksey grow into a creative and remarkable young woman or his handsome son Walker gain charisma and confidence as they both developed their own interests-and best of all--their own friendship circles. Marshall beamed with joy as Kirksey took the stage as Wendy in the senior class production of Peter Pan at St. Thomas and belted out her solos like a seasoned professional. He was equally proud of her academic achievements as an IB program senior at Palmer Trinity School, earning top student awards for both History and Science. Marshall was a constant presence at the school's sideline cheering on Walker and his teammates at the school's football games. His children's friends lovingly and appropriately referred to Marshall as the G.O.A.T. ("Greatest Of All Time") for his unparalleled sense of humor and loving participation in the lives of his children. Marshall was an equal and enthusiastic champion of his wife Morgan and applauded her success in her own career. Yet he was most captivated by her beauty, her laugh, her love of family, her fun and quirky holiday traditions, and her incomparable ability to keep the family on schedule and engaged with one another, their friends and their community.

When not tending to his family, Marshall was the best of company to his extensive circle of friends. His enviable handicap placed him in demand to join many a foursome for a round of golf, but his humor and quick wit were his true calling cards. Marshall's love of his family was complemented by his enduring bond with his friends, best exemplified by his continuous 35 years of attendance at the notorious Big Bucks weekend. While golf and hunting were the order of the day, the tales told around the campfire and the friendships forged in the evening remain the stuff of legend.

Marshall radiated love for his family and for his friends, but he was also a magnet, drawing love out of all of who were privileged to have encountered him. Any time spent with Marshall was worthwhile. His sly smile, his deep laugh, his wry one-liners, and his endearing habit of tearing up when someone said, or he heard, something that touched him, are just a few of his traits that will linger in our happy memories of this wonderful, funny and irreplaceable man. In addition to his many, many friends, his loss will be felt most deeply by his immediate family, Morgan, Kirksey and Walker, but also his extended family including his brother Al Smith, his sister-in law, Monica Cronin, his nieces and nephew, Alex, Melissa, Shannon, and Duncan; his sister Leslie Smith, his brother-in-law, Bruce Brockhouse and Bruce's children, Taylor and Erin Brockhouse; his sister-in-law, Province (Boo) Zamek, his brother-in law, Paul Zamek and their children, Caroline and Aly; and Morgan's parents Dabney (Bud) and Betty Park.

Elaine Veronica Hopper
August 17, 1940 - August 25, 2022

Elaine Veronica Hopper died Aug. 25, 2022, in Florence, Alabama, at the home of her beloved niece, after a courageous life marked by generosity and eccentricity. Born the third of four sisters in Hamilton County, Ohio, on August 17, 1940, Ms. Hopper gave her life in service to those around her.

Ms. Hopper attended various schools in and around Cincinnati, testing into the prestigious Walnut Hills High School before a family move required her to finish her K-12 education in the Miami-Dade County, Florida, school system. After high school, she joined the U.S. Marine Corps. Unfortunately, the residual effects of a childhood bout with polio necessitated an early honorable discharge from the Corps. Then at her mother Veronica Rogers Hopper's encouragement, Ms. Hopper attended LaGrange College in LaGrange, Georgia, where she trained to be a history teacher. She spent the first years of her professional life at Jordan High School in Columbus, Georgia, where she nurtured her students and encouraged them in their post-high school lives.

When civil unrest in Cincinnati required her father to return to Ohio to maintain property, leaving her mother and younger sister alone at home, Ms. Hopper returned to Miami and finished her teaching career in the Miami-Dade system. She remained in Miami after retirement, volunteering at Shenandoah Elementary School, enjoying Friday night dinners with family, fellowshipping with her friends at the Silver Club of the First United Methodist Church, and knowing her dear neighbor Yvonne. In 2018, Ms. Hopper moved to north Alabama to be near her remaining sister in her sister's final illness. After her move, Alabama relatives got the fun of joining "Aunt Laney" for Parcheesi games and jigsaw puzzles.

Throughout her life, Ms. Hopper was generous with her finances. A minimalist herself, she sponsored an orphan when she was in college and paid for her younger sister's car. As she earned money through her teaching career, she bought cars for other family members as well and paid tuition for several nieces and nephews. These are just a few examples of her generosity. There would not be room, nor would Ms. Hopper want, for all her kindnesses to be listed. Suffice to say, if she had it, she was willing to give it away.

If she hadn't been a teacher, Ms. Hopper easily could have been a novelist. She never met a story she couldn't embellish, and make better in the telling. There was nothing she liked better than hearing stories of other peoples' lives, especially if they included an underdog overcoming adversity. Though she struggled with forgiveness for those who cavalierly hurt others, she had a deep and abiding belief in God's sovereignty over the earth and that He will prevail in His plan for humankind. She often quoted Longfellow, saying, "The wrong shall fail, the right prevail"—then in characteristic Laney fashion added a line of her own—"For God is ruler yet." She liked to help God out by treating the discouraged to vacations and new school clothes, money for housing repairs, and fudge from the Punta Clara Kitchen in Point Clear, Alabama.

Ms. Hopper was preceded in death by her parents; three sisters, Carita Hopper Swanson Vonk, Effie Lou Hopper Lee and Merlene Charla Hopper; and one grandnephew, Aaron Blaine Lee. She is survived by her brother-in-law the Rev. A. Ray Lee of Hartselle, Alabama, nieces Laura Lee Myer of Hartselle, Alabama, Dr. Jennifer Lee Morris and her husband Scott of Florence, Alabama, nephews Clint (Deidra) Lee of Hartselle, Alabama, Mark Swanson and Paul Swanson of Miami, Florida, and John (Michelle) Swanson of Chapel Hill, North Carolina, 16 grandnieces and grandnephews, and 1 great-niece and 4 great-nephews.

REV. BARBARA LEE SCOTT
AUGUST 14, 1938 - AUGUST 27, 2022

Rev. Barbara Lee Scott went to be with her God on August 27, 2022. She was born Barbara Lee Stroud in Detroit on August 14, 1938 to Alton and Mary Stroud. She grew up in Mason, Michigan where her father was the school Superintendent and her mother was a high school English teacher.

She attended Michigan State University (BA) and Garrett Theological Seminary in Chicago, Illinois before joining the full-time ministry in the Methodist Conference.

She worked at a variety of local Methodist Churches including Mt. Hope and University Methodist before moving to Florida where she worked for over 25 years for First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables. She retired from the Ministry in 2006 and moved to North Carolina where she lived for eight years before returning back to Michigan.

She was predeceased by her husband Walter Scott (1998).

She is survived by her daughter, Katherine (Kay) Kniahynycky and son James Bradley; along with three grand-children, Jennifer, Meghan and Allison and three great grandchildren, Antonina, Foster and Jack.

A celebration of life will be held on September 17, 2022, 2 PM at The Peoples Church, 200 W. Grand River Ave. East Lansing, MI 48823.

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HELEN RHODES PERRY
October 18, 1928 - June 9, 2022

Miami resident Helen R. Perry passed peacefully in her sleep on June 9, 2022. She was surrounded by her son, Daniel Perry, and her daughter, Suzanne Perry, and her kind and wonderful caregivers.

Helen was born and grew up in Raleigh, North Carolina, a place that she dearly loved. She moved to Miami in the mid 1950s with her husband, Robert Perry, who preceeded her in death. Helen had a dear and lifelong friend, Joseph Fisher, who was by her side until his passing three years ago and provided for her for the remainder of her life. Helen was a wonderful artist and painter, and excelled at all things creative. She had a singing voice like a nightingale. She was a deeply spiritual person and attended the First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables for 60 years. She loved plants and animals, and was an extraordinarily kind and loving person to her children and all whom she met. She will be deeply missed by her family and all those who knew her, and they will cherish the many beautiful memories of Helen.

Salome McNab
Died June 8, 2022

Salome McNab had been a member of the church since 1996. She loved and worked with the choir here at First Coral Gables, as music had been her passion.

No obituary is available at this time. If you would like to contribute a detail about the life of Ms. McNab, please contact the church office at 305-445-2578, so that we can help to create one.

Elsie Maatje Shaw
August 29, 1927 - May 19, 2022

Elsie Maatje Shaw, age 94, passed away on Thursday, May 19, 2022 at her home in Coral Gables, Florida. Elsie was born August 29, 1927 in Camden, New Jersey to Elizabeth Maatje and Albertus Maatje of the providence of South Holland, in the second largest city of Rotterdam, in the Netherlands. Elsie was one of three daughters, with the others being Betsy Miller, and Mary Buonnanno.

She was married to Joseph Samuel Shaw for 54 memorable and glorious years before his passing in 2004. She is survived by 2 wonderful children: her daughters, Joyce Ellen Pridgen (Robert) and Anne Elizabeth Webber (Eric); a grandson, Brent Eric Webber; sister, Mary; and 3 nieces and 4 nephews.

Elsie Shaw had enormous love for this country and conveyed this commitment by working as an Inspector with U.S. Customs for many years. As a fantastic grandmother, Elsie adored her grandson and provided "Granny Daycare," as Eric and Anne worked full time. She routinely attended all of "Brenty's" childhood sporting events and school activities.

Given that both her daughters graduated from the University of Miami, Elsie was a huge Miami Hurricanes football fan. For many years, she was a season football ticket holder and attended all the games with family and friends in the famous Orange Bowl. Furthermore, Elsie was President of the local North American Collegiate sorority Tri Psi mothers of Tri-Delta and Parliamentarian of the National Chapter.

With Elsie's family history and connections to the Netherlands, she adored gathering vintage plates, delft china, other collectibles associated with Holland. No family birthday celebration was ever complete without the singing of the Dutch birthday song (hip, hip, hooray!). Elsie's favorite pastimes were shopping, going to art shows, and attending the Coral Gables farmers market. Elsie was a professional shopper; getting a bargain on a seasonal craft, home accessory, or garden plant was always a fun time. At every opportunity, she cherished working in the garden and attending to her home collection of bromeliads and orchids. Elsie truly had a green thumb! Her daughter, Joyce, inherited her gardening skills and the joy of finding a good shopping deal.

Elsie Maatje Shaw was a wonderful wife, mother, grandmother and friend to everyone, and always had a way of staying positive and making everyone feel important and appreciated. Rest in peace, and may God watch over your soul with love and kindness.

EDWARD W. ENGLISH
May 2, 1929 - April 17, 2022

Edward English was born in Grand Rapids Michigan on May 2nd, 1929, but soon became a life long resident of Coral Gables, FL. He graduated from Ponce De Leon High School in 1947, then enlisted in the United States Air force from 1949 through 1950 where he was honorably discharged. Edward went on to earn his BA from the University of Miami on 1953, then finished seminary at the University of the South (Sewanee) in 1955.

Edward was a staple at St. Philips Episcopal church where he was a Deacon and an active member of the choir. Edward and his wife Janet enjoyed being poll workers during election time along with volunteering together at Montgomery Gardens. In recent years Edward was appointed as the chaplain for the American Legion Post 98. Edward truly enjoyed the work he did there as it embodied two important areas of his life which were God and Country.

Edward is survived by his wife of over 40 years Janet (Stanley-Johnson) English and children Edward English II, Howard English, Michael English (wife Karin) , Erica Willey (husband Jack), Vassna Faraldo (husband Alex), Jeffrey Johnson, Kimberlee (husband Marcus) Dodson.

Edward is also survived by his grandchildren Rachel English, Hunter English, Jenna English, Michael English, Hannah Willey, Sarah Willey, Jesus (Chuchi) Rodriguez, Maggie Dodson, Jeremy Dodson, and Emilee Dodson.

A service for Edward will be held on May 2nd, 2022, at 6pm at St. Philip's Episcopal Church, 1121 Andalusia Avenue, Coral Gables, FL 33134. A reception will be held onsite the church campus at Swanee Hall immediately following the service.

David Victor Oppelt
february 23, 1944 – March 22, 2022

David Victor Oppelt, a retired educator, husband, and father of five, died Tuesday, March 22, 2022. He was 78 years old.

David was born in San Bernardino, California, on February 23, 1944. He graduated from the University of Miami and received his Master’s Degree from the School of Education. He continued his educational journey, earning a Post Graduate Specialist degree beyond his Master’s, never stopping his life-long pursuit of learning through formal and informal education and life learnings.

David was a teacher at many Miami area schools, but an administrator at Southridge Senior High School as founding faculty, from 1974-2005. In addition, he worked with the after school program as the administrator at Devon Aire Elementary, dedicating his afternoons to furthering the education of youth through educational and enrichment activities.

Over the years, he also was active in various civic, educational and arts organizations. He was an accomplished stained glass artisan, chess player, and an avid world traveler. In his ever-evolving quest for knowledge, he traveled extensively in his near-retirement and post-retirement years. His favorite pastime was to always spend time with family.

David is survived by his wife, Sharon Linn Oppelt, the love of his life and high school sweetheart of 58 years. In addition, he is survived by their five daughters; Sharon Michelle, Kimberly Linn, Kendra Terra, Christel Page, and Christina Dawn Michelle, his 10 grandchildren, and 4 great grandchildren.

Irma Warren 
January 20, 1949 – February 22, 2022

Irma Banegas immigrated to Miami, Florida from Tegucigalpa, Honduras in 1976, the U.S. bicentennial year.  It was here that she met a young man, Byron Warren, who had also left his home in Louisville, KY recently in search of a future. Byron and Irma built a life together for 45 years. They had one child, Jennifer Warren.  

Irma was a very proud U.S. citizen and worked hard to build a life in America.  She took classes at North Miami Senior High School’s night school to learn English and grammar.  She then enrolled at North Miami Technical Center, earning vocational certificates to train to be a legal secretary.  She was such a good student that she was offered a job at the vocational school after graduation.  It was here that Irma found her true calling.  As an enrollment counselor for the school, she was able to assist other young immigrants in the community offering them career options that were within their reach and a pathway to the South Florida job market.  For many years, she could not step foot in a medical facility without someone recognizing her, bursting into tears and thanking her for helping them to obtain a job that they loved and that provided a stable income for their family.  Irma loved her job very much, and especially loved her co-workers.  Irma was always the life of the party, and enjoyed the good times that she had with her work family.

Irma is survived by her husband, Byron Warren; her daughter, Jennifer Warren (Edward Bach); her grandchildren, Victoria and Valentina Bach; her sisters, Urania Banegas, Liliana Banegas; her brother, Gerson Banegas; and her nieces and nephews. She is predeceased by her brother, Miguel Banegas; her grandson, Edward James Bach, III; and her parents, Victor and Amparo Banegas.  

Pamela Kay Bennett (née André) 
May 2, 1956 - January 18, 2022

Pamela Kay André, a native South Floridian, was born one of four children to Vivian and Robert André on May 2, 1956. 

During her life, Pamela discovered a talent and passion for glass art. Her work evolved throughout her lifetime, from stained glass to state-of-the-art techniques in lampworking and blown glass. Pamela began blowing glass at Palomar College in California, studying under several renowned glass artists. Continuing her passion, she also studied at Pilchuck with Dale Chihuly, and Penland with Richard Ritter. Her work incorporated sandblasting techniques of aquatic life on her blown pieces, which reflects her experience as both a dive boat captain and scuba dive instructor. Through her glass, she conveyed to others her underwater experiences. She also was influenced greatly by her time spent in the North Carolina Mountains. Her wildlife series and its strong sense of nature were a direct reflection of her experiences there. Pamela was instrumental in the building of the “Hot Shop” at the University of Miami. She taught classes at the University of Miami, as well as being the studio technician. Her work has received numerous awards at the most prestigious shows, including the “Festival of the Masters,” and she had the honor of having one of her pieces included in the White House permanent collection of glass.

When she wasn’t making glass, she spent time in her garden. She was a great lover of nature, animals and spending time with family and friends. Pamela met Mark Bennett, planetarium manager at the Frost Science Museum. They went on their first date in April 2002, and they fell in love.  They were married on November 12, 2010, and have been together since.  

Pamela is predeceased by her sister, Patricia André Kesler, and her parents.  She leaves behind two siblings, Paulette André Gaar and Robert André (Lanna); a devoted brother-in-law, Rex Bennett; as well as numerous nieces and nephews.  She will be missed by all who knew her.

MARY ARLENE WHITCOMB
November 27, 1932 - January 18, 2022

Mary Whitcomb was born in Lancaster, Pennsylvania on November 27, 1932 to Hettie Margaret Ulrich and Raymond Whitcomb. Mary worked in the brokerage business from 1968 to 1988 as a financial planner. In addition to being a longtime member of First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables and the Coral Gables Garden Club, Mary was an active volunteer in other organizations. She enjoyed giving guided tours through Vizcaya and Fairchild Tropical Gardens. She loved her cats and her home in Coral Gables.

In accordance with her wishes, no services will be held. Donations may be made in her memory to the Altar Guild at First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables.

CRISTINA RAQUEL ROBAINA
July 24, 1918 - January 7, 2022

Cristina Raquel Robaina passed away peacefully at home at the age of 103.  She was born on July 24, 1918 in Herradura, Pinar del Rio, Cuba, the daughter of Antonia Hernandez and Arsenio Robaina.  The last of seven sisters, she immigrated to the United States in 1955.  Although she had no children of her own, she had numerous nephews and nieces, as well as their children and even grandchildren whom she adored and cared for over the course of her long life. 

A lifelong member of the United Methodist Church, she was part of the congregation in Herradura, Cuba; Newark, New Jersey; and Coral Gables, Florida.  She will be missed by all at her final church home of First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to First United Methodist Church in Coral Gables.

Wayne averill whittlesey
April 30, 1937 - 2021

Native Dade County resident Wayne Whittlesey passed away in 2021 at Epworth Village in Hialeah. He had been a longtime member of First Coral Gables.

Wayne was an accomplished photographer and artist. He was relentless in his effort to express his feelings through his art. His quick wit and generous sprinkling of good humor were his companions as he tackled each new project.

Wayne was gifted of mind and spirit. As a child, Wayne was a victim of Cerebral Palsy, and he defied the odds of those who told him he would never succeed. Today, Wayne will never cease to amaze observers as he transformed a blank sheet of paper into an art form. For many years, his brilliant and remarkable images had won him awards, honors, and recognition from art critics and the public. Wayne’s talent lent itself easily to the camera and to his watercolor work. His photographic eye was sensitive as he captured unusual images of people and places all over the world.

Wayne’s extraordinary insight and focus was different. One can spend endless hours observing the abstract forms and exciting colors he artfully placed on paper. He invented complex subjects we are not familiar with, but that he clearly saw in his mind’s eye. He took artistic liberties with the camera and communicated his special understanding and zestful love for life to the spectator in all he accomplished. Wayne’s contributions to photography and art can still be appreciated and enjoyed by people of all cultures, religions, and nationalities long into the future. His work can be seen at https://fineartamerica.com/profiles/1-wayne-whittlesey.

Cristina Garcia

We are saddened to report that one of our members, Cristina Garcia, passed away in December 2021. Please join us in praying for her daughter, Debie Muñecas, along with the rest of Cristina's family.

Mary Elizabeth Ring

The church has received word that Mary Elizabeth Ring, who attended First Coral Gables a few years ago, passed away in Alabama in December 2021. She was 83.

Despite her visual disability, Mary Ring loved the choir and used to sing with Dr. Bob Gower when he led music at Christ Allapattah. She began to attend First Coral Gables with Jim and Polly Henning (her sister), who were members here.

Mary Ring will be missed by all who knew her.

Tom Delancey Wood
September 26, 1931 - October 23, 2021

Thomas DeLancey Wood passed away peacefully at home on October 23, 2021 surrounded by his family. He lived a long and amazing life. He was a proud Miami native, the youngest son of Bernice Brandt Wood and Hayes Stearns Wood. 

He graduated from Ponce De Leon High School where he lettered in football, baseball, and was captain of the basketball team. He was also president of the student government. It was in high school where he met the love of his life, Virginia Woolley. They were married on June 30, 1956 at First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables. They created a beautiful love story together and were married for over 65 years.

Tom obtained his bachelor’s degree at the University of Miami. While in college, he was the president of his class, president of the Sigma Alpha Epsilon Fraternity, and was in the Naval Reserves. In his sophomore year of college, his Naval unit was activated and he served during the Korean War. He continued to serve in the United States Naval Reserve, Judge Advocate General Corps for 40 years, and retired with the rank of captain.

After his tour of service, he returned to the University of Miami and obtained his law degree in 1956. He remained dedicated to the University of Miami and served in many capacities. He served on the University of Miami Board of Trustees in various categories. He joined the board in 1987 and served for three years as the Alumni Association representative to the board. After sitting off the board for two years, he rejoined in 1992 as a Regularly-Elected Trustee, then served as Life/Senior Trustee from 2005 until his election as Emeritus Trustee in 2018. In addition to being past chairman of the Nesbitt Scholarship Committee at the UM School of Law, Tom was a member of the Iron Arrow Honor Society, the highest honor attainable at the University. 

Tom was also the founder and chairman of Thomas D. Wood and Company, one of South Florida’s largest, independently-owned commercial lenders. He was a past member of the Mortgage Bankers Association and a former director of the Income Property Committee. He was formerly an Advisory Board member of NationsBank, director of Barnett Bank of South Florida, president of the Orange Bowl Committee, and co-chairman of the Breeder’s Cup Committee. Tom was a former special attorney general for the state of Florida. He was also president of the Young Lawyers section of the Florida Bar and active in the Florida Bar Association.

His real talent and passion, however, was mentoring young people. He was a long-time coach of championship Khoury League baseball teams. He also coached the South Miami Blue Devils football team. Four of his former players were drafted and played in the NFL. Tom was an active member of the First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables. He was the Chairman of the Pastor Parish Relations Committee and his first love was teaching a high school Sunday School class entitled “Christian Street Sense,” which he taught for 40 years.

Tom loved the North Carolina mountains. He and his wife Virginia honeymooned there and they later built a home in 1965 in the community of Sapphire Valley. He loved to spend time with his family there in the summers and was also active in the Cashiers Baptist Church.

He was a remarkable husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, teaching his children not by lecture, but by example. His strong sense of Christian faith, dedication to helping others, and humble respect he showed all he met made him loved by anyone who came to know him. Tom never met a stranger.

One of the recent highlights of his life was being able to celebrate his 90th birthday with his family, known as the “Woodpile.”

Tom is survived by his wife Virginia, his children Steven Hayes Wood (Mary), Thomas DeLancey Wood Jr (Kim), Deborah Wood Porcher (Charles); eleven grandchildren: Megan, Taylor, Grant, Austin Wood, Ashlee Freeman (Reid), Courtney, Tom III, Carly Wood, Weldon, Stuart, Claire Porcher; great grandson Finn Freeman III; brother Peter Wood, sisters Letitia Howell and Georgiana Wood; brothers-in-law Paul and James Woolley (Pat), sisters-in-law Pat and Tess Wood; and many nieces and nephews whom he cared for throughout the years. He is proceeded in death by his brothers Hayes, David, and Hugh Wood (Molly). 

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations made to any of the following: First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables, Wounded Warrior Project, or Big Brothers Big Sisters of Miami.

The family will hold a private graveside service. A Celebration of Life service will be held at First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables on Saturday, November 20, 2021, at 2:00pm.

Richard Escobar
June 28, 1946 - September 2021

Richard Escobar was born on June 28, 1946 in Colombia. He served in the United States Army from 1967 to 1979. After his tour of duty, he opened a print shop ("Rick's Printing") on Miami Beach, where for a number of years he made a modest living doing flyers and wedding invitations. He was especially proud of the work he did for the Miami Beach Police Department, creating "most wanted" flyers targeting local persons of interest to the police. Richard was married and had three children (Daniella, Richard and Robert) before his divorce. He attended First Coral Gables for 6 years, attending Dr. Ladner’s Bible study and Sunday School classes. He struggled with COPD for a long time, and passed away at the age of 75.

Jean Robinson Korner
April 3, 1929 - September 2, 2021

Jean Robinson Korner was born on April 3, 1929 in Norfolk, VA. Growing up, she attended Sullins School in Virginia.

In 1951, Jean married a sweetheart from her hometown, Ralph Robinson, who became a dentist. They had two sons and two daughters.

Jean was predeceased by her husband, Dr. Robinson, in 2007.

Betty Hendren McDavit
May 17, 1936 - September 1, 2021

Betty Hendren McDavit, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, died September 1, 2021, at her home, surrounded by her loving family. She leaves her spirit and love.

Betty was active in the First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables and served as secretary of the Altar Guild. She was a retired legal secretary and property manager. She devoted much of her time and energy as a volunteer helping others. She enjoyed playing tennis and golf with her friends from the Coral Gables Country Club. Betty was a Delta airline stewardess in 1959, and flew the inaugural DC-8 jet flight from Miami to Chicago and Detroit. She grew up in northern Kentucky and attended Eastern Kentucky State University, and had lived in Coral Gables since 1959.

She is survived by her husband, Ken; sister, Mary Darby of Shreveport, LA; daughter, Margie Hendren Gupton (Walter); son, William Mack Hendren III (Catherine); daughter, Kelly M. Jones; four grandchildren and one great-grandchild, as well as many nieces and nephews. At her request, no formal funeral service will be held. Her favorite saying was: "Life is a sermon, so be careful how you live it."

Lawrence (Larry) Imber
February 5, 1942 - July 26, 2021

Lawrence (Larry) Richard Imber passed away on July 26, 2021. He was born to wonderful, loving, and totally supportive parents in Jamaica (Queens), New York, on February 5, 1942. He came to Miami in 1953 with his parents and sister Joy and attended Shenandoah Junior High School, where he formed lifelong friendships. Larry went on to attend Coral Gables High School, where his focus on football, as co-captain of teams under legendary coach Nick Kotys, won city, state, and Big Ten championships, as well as national rankings. Coral Gables High sparked the birth of his passion to learn about the history, residents, and landmarks of Coral Gables, which continued throughout his life. He absorbed it all.

Larry graduated from Florida State University and the University of Louisville School of Dentistry, after which he married Barbara Edwards, a native of Coral Gables. After moving to Boston, where Larry attended Tufts University School of Dentistry Medicine and obtained a graduate degree in Periodontics, Larry and Barbara moved to Wichita Falls, Texas, where Larry served in the U. S. Air Force at Sheppard AFB. Returning to Coral Gables, Larry opened his own dental practice in 1974, where he dedicated his professional life to expert dental care and personal interest and compassion for his lifelong patients who became friends.

Living a very full life, Larry was an avid hunter and fisherman and had all of the tales to go with those adventures. He found delight in growing orchids and gardening, especially when someone cleaned up after him, and traveling near and far, finding the most beauty in our own national parks. Marrying Sally Webster in 2000 and becoming a loving father to her children and to her extended family, Larry was devoted to his family and loyal to his array of friends and their wives. Everyone loved Larry and his dynamic personality. In Larry's own words, "I wish to thank my wonderful family, friends, patients, all of those along the way for sharing their lives with me in both big and small ways. I hope I made a difference." Yes, Larry, you did.

Larry is predeceased by his parents Norman and Frances (Robb) Imber and Barbara (Edwards) Imber. He is survived by his wife Sally, children Michael (Lauren), Tyler (Bibi), Torey (George), Tammie (Ben), 3 beautiful granddaughters, 2 very handsome grandsons, and delightful nieces and nephews.

The family will receive guests on August 12, 2021, at Burger Bob's from 4:30 to 7:30. Private interment will follow. In lieu of flowers, a contribution may be made in Larry's honor to Canine Companions for Independence.

Carl E. Balli, M.D.
February 12, 1927 - April 22, 2021

Carl E. Balli, M.D., passed away at his home in St. Augustine, FL. Born in Clarksburg, West Virginia, he attended Roosevelt-Wilson Grade and Junior High Schools until he moved to Miami with his mother in 1943. He graduated from Miami Senior High in 1944, and at age 17, he joined the United States Navy where he achieved the rank of Pharmacist's Mate 2nd Class. After his Honorable Discharge in 1946, Dr. Balli began his professional education at the University of Miami. He transferred to George Washington University in 1948, where he obtained his B.A. in 1950. He then attended George Washington University's Medical School and received his M.D. in 1953. It was at G.W.U. that he met Maxine Sowards, and they were married on August 9, 1952.

Dr. Balli had a rotating internship at Jackson Memorial Hospital in 1953-1954. From 1954 to 1957, he performed his residency at Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, Maryland. He became board certified in radiology in 1957, and returned to Miami to practice radiology at North Shore Hospital from 1957 until his retirement.

Dr. and Mrs. Balli settled in Coral Gables, Florida, where they lived until 2004. He was a Clinical Associate Professor at Jackson Memorial, President of the Greater Miami Radiology Society 1959-60, President, North Shore Medical Staff 1965-66, and member of both the Radiological Society of North America and the American College of Radiology. He was an active member of First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables, Riviera Country Club, University Club, and Wildcat Cliffs Country Club (Highlands, N.C.). After moving to St. Augustine in 2004, he joined Grace United Methodist Church.

He was predeceased by his wife, parents Charles Paul Balli and Elizabeth Thomas Balli, brothers George Fahrner and Ed Fahrner, sisters Minnie Willingham, Alice Saab, and Dolores Fahrner. Dr. Balli is survived by his two children, Charles Leonard and Mary Beth, nephew Frank Willingham, nieces Jan McGovern, Kim Fahrner, and Rita Love. No services will be held in accordance with his wishes. Donations may be made to Community Hospice Foundation, 4266 Sunbeam Road, Jacksonville, FL 32257; H.A.W.K.E Wildlife, P.O. Box 188, Elkton, FL 32033, or the charity of your choice.

He loved golfing, singing, and football. He was a lifelong University of Miami Hurricane fan, and a charter season ticket holder for the Miami Dolphins. A kind and loving man, wonderful husband, father, and uncle, he will be greatly missed.

Dorothy Carter Drennan
March 21, 1929 - April 20, 2021

Dorothy Carter Drennan (“Dottie”) was born on March 21, 1929 in North Dakota. She began school at age 4 in a one-room country school, but went on to achieve a Ph.D. in Music Theory at the University of Miami in 1975.   She directed music in Miami churches for 25 years and sang in the Bach Society Chorus.  

She is survived by her children, Michael and Gladys, six grandchildren, and eight great-grandchildren.  

Services will be held in the sanctuary of First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables on Saturday, May 1, 2021 at 11:00 a.m.

William D. Wright, Jr.
November 28, 1923 - April 9, 2021

Lt. Colonel William D. Wright, Jr. died at the age of 97 on April 9, 2021.

A native South Floridian, “W.D.” was born in Key West on Thanksgiving Day to William and Elaine de Guzman Wright. His father worked for the Florida East Coast Railroad, and his mother took care of W.D. and his brother and sister, both younger. As a kid, W.D. developed an enterprising spirit by managing a newspaper route, delivering to over 150 customers each morning before school.

After graduating from Miami Senior High in 1941, W.D. joined the Marine Corps, serving during World War II. Upon his discharge, he enrolled at the University of Miami, where he earned a B.Sc. degree in Industrial Engineering. He became a cost accountant for an aluminum manufacturing company, where he learned “how not to run a commercial business.”

Because W.D. had joined the Marine Corps Reserves, he was called back into service—this time as an officer—when the Korean War broke out. After his second discharge, W.D. briefly joined the CIA as an intelligence officer. Although he was working with the smartest and best educated group of professionals, he became disenchanted with the secrecy involved and soon returned to Miami. He continued in the Reserves until his retirement after 28 years.

W.D. married Carolyn Elizabeth Baer, a “shouting Methodist,” in Gainesville in 1957. They were together until her death in 2000. Their one child, Robert, became an officer with the Coral Gables Police Department, and gave W.D. a number of grandchildren. W.D. was able to trace his ancestry back to the oldest documented surviving family in the USA. One of his ancestors founded St. Augustine in 1565; thus, W.D.’s grandchildren are fourteenth generation Floridians.

W.D.’s executive career took him through corporate Howard Johnson, Burger King, and a $50-million conglomerate in Ft. Lauderdale. The latter was owned by an upright Baptist family which set an example at the workplace: W.D. never heard a curse word uttered there.

W.D. was a member of First UMC of South Miami, where he taught Sunday school for over 30 years. During that time, he served as Chairman of both the Finance Committee and of the Stewardship Committee, as a member of the Board of Trustees, and as Treasurer of the Men’s Club. W.D. had attended First Coral Gables’ Bible studies too, where friends here remember him as a genial man with an inquisitive and engaged mind. He remained active in the Sigma Alpha Epsilon (SAE) fraternity, which he had joined while at university, and was instrumental in building a house chapter at the University of Miami.

A memorial service will be held at Kendall Presbyterian Church on Saturday, April 24, at 11:00am.

Monica Ruth (Reilly) BArtley
July 27, 1960 - March 3, 2021

Monica Ruth (Reilly) Bartley, 60, loving wife and fun mother of 5, died 3 March 2021 at home with all of her family with her. Monica was born to R. Thomas and Mary E. (O’Rourke) Reilly in Miami on 27 July 1960. She grew up on the wonderful NW 32nd Avenue neighborhood, and attended St. Michael the Archangel School and Miami High School (1978), where she was a majorette. Monica graduated from Miami-Dade Community College in 1980 with her A.A. degree and received her A.S. in Nursing in  1993. Shortly after, she was hired at Jackson Memorial Hospital. where she worked at Holtz Women’s and Children’s Hospital and in 1994 was named Rookie of the Year.  In November 1995, she transferred to the Surgical Intensive Care Unit (SICU), where she worked for 26 years. She received her BSN from Florida International University in 1999 and her Master’s in Health Services Administration from Barry University in 2009. Monica was promoted to Nurse Manager in July 2005.

She and Jeffrey Bartley were married in 1998.  She was well-known and enjoyed for her ready smile, her generous love, her willingness for adventure, her love of beaches, and a tough-love mom.  She was preceded in death by her parents and one nephew. Monica is survived by her husband, Jeffrey; five children: Roy Duarte (Fayetteville NC), Zachary Duarte (Deerfield Beach FL), Joshua, Alyssa and Ryan of Miami, one granddaughter Sadie Duarte and her sister Katie (Marty) Schwedhelm of Carson City NV, 4 brothers-in-law and 14 nieces and nephews.  In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you donate in Monica’s memory to American Cancer Society, VITAS Hospice, or a cause that you are passionate about.

Zoila R. Martinez
June 27, 1917 - February 16, 2021

Zoila R. Martinez passed away at the age of 103. She was born in Palma Soriano, in the eastern province of Oriente, Cuba. She met Jose L. Martinez in Havana, where he was studying at the University; they married in 1947 and started a family, which included Luis Alfonso, Diana Patricia (RIP) and Rosa Maria.  When Zoila and her family arrived in the United States in November of 1961, the congregation of Immanuel Methodist Church in Penn’s Grove, New Jersey, provided initial assistance to get a start on their new life.  Zoila and Jose Luis eventually achieved the American Dream.  They were entrepreneurs – Zoila was an expert seamstress and started a custom curtain business in their basement and Jose Luis bought and rented out properties.  

When Jose Luis retired from his Cost Accounting position in  General Foods, Dover, Delaware, in 1987, they moved to Coral Gables, where they attended First United Methodist of Coral Gables. Surviving Zoila are her son, Luis, currently living in Rochester, NY, and daughter, Rosa Maria, of Coral Gables.  Zoila’s younger sister, Edith, still lives in Cuba. Zoila will be missed by all who knew her faith, loving spirit, optimism and boundless generosity.

Eneida Barrios Guernica
May 19, 1925 - February 6, 2021

Eneida Barrios Guernica, 95, of Key Largo FL, passed away February 6, 2021, with her family by her side. She was born to the late Rogelio Barrios and Olympia Cano, May 19, 1925, in Habana, Cuba. She married the late Alberto Guernica de Roux in July 4, 1945. They lived together in Cuba for nearly 16 years until they immigrated to the US in 1961, leaving their homes behind in order to escape the tyrannical communist regime of the Castros. Eneida is survived by her three children: Alberto Guernica, Irma Rosa Guernica Becerra and Eduardo Antonio Guernica. She is also survived by 4 grandchildren and 2 great-grandchildren: Eduardo Alberto Guernica, Krystin Guernica, Icela Marliese Guernica, Elvis Dante Guernica, Giulia Rose Guernica and Samuel Eduardo Guernica.

Eneida, also known as “Cuqui” to her family and close friends, loved classical music at a very young age. In Cuba as a talented concert pianist, she was offered a scholarship to Juilliard School in New York City. Although her father did not allow her to accept the scholarship, Eneida turned to education and in Cuba started her own kindergarten school and used her love of music to teach children. Later she developed her own techniques using musical therapy to help children with physical and cognitive disabilities. In 1956, while continuing to work with kids with learning disabilities, she attended the University of Villanueva, in Cuba, and continued her studies in Psychology.

In 1961, in the midst of migrating to the US and establishing a new home with her husband and three children, Eneida began to work in the Dade County Public Schools as a Cuban Aide. She helped with the influx of Cuban children to the US in assimilating to their new surroundings, language and culture. Despite her full-time work and taking care of her family, she continued her studies where she re-certified as a Psychologist in Florida. She continued to study until she earned a doctorate degree in educational psychology from Florida International University. She retired from the Dade County Public School system as a school psychologist after 25 years but her work didn’t end there. She began and directed the “Bi-lingual Educational Center,” a school which helped kids with learning disabilities in a bi-lingual setting. Based on her experiences with Cuban and other Hispanic children migrating to the US, she wrote two books on the subject: “Los Ninos Cubanos en el Exilio y sus Familias” and a cognitive study called “PRAM.” Eneida continued her practice as a clinical and educational psychologist and retired at the age of 83. Despite all of her tireless work and the many children and families that she helped throughout her life, her love and support of her family and children was always present and never wavering. Her children and grandchildren enjoy a close family relationship today because of her endless sacrifices for our well-being. She will always be lovingly remembered until the day we join her.

Sallie Creel Quillian
May 22, 1938 - January 6, 2021

Sallie Ruth Creel Quillian, 82, of Coral Gables, FL died peacefully at Doctor’s Hospital on January 6, 2021 after an unexpected illness. Sallie was born in Gadsden, AL to Joe and Nellie Jo Morton Creel. She moved to Miami at the age of 6, where she attended Coral Gables Elementary, Ponce Junior High, and Coral Gables Senior High, graduating in 1956. Sallie attended Duke University for one year and then transferred to Emory University and married her high school sweetheart, Warren W. Quillian II. They were married for 62 years. She completed her undergraduate degree at Emory while Warren finished medical school. During Warren’s residency in pediatrics, Sallie taught high school and began her life as a mother. Their first daughter, Rutledge, was born in Boston; their second, Ruth, in Atlanta while Warren was stationed at Fort Benning. Sallie and Warren returned to South Florida in 1966 and lived just a few miles from her childhood home.

In 1967, Sallie and Warren welcomed son, Warren, and in 1970, their third daughter, Frances. Both were born at Doctors Hospital, the same medical center that cared for Sallie in her final days. While Sallie’s youngest children were still in school, she began graduate studies at the University of Miami, completing a master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy in her late 40s. She began part-time work as a licensed therapist at the First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables, continuing in that position for several decades. She particularly enjoyed counseling couples prior to marriage.

Over her life, Sallie took on many roles, excelling at whatever role she served – wife, mother, teacher, PTA President, Junior League member, first mate of the Beare’s Lair, marriage and family therapist, grandmother, and lifelong friend to many. When she signed up for a role, she gave it everything she had.

Sallie delighted in her husband, her children and her friends. Her deepest love was for the man she married. While Sallie was a freshman at Duke, Warren drove after class from Atlanta to Durham, only to find that the girls’ dorm was already closed, so all he could do was wave to her through the window. Theirs was a great love story. They remained inseparable. They were best friends, confidantes, bridge partners, boat mates, dance partners, and partners in parenting.

Sallie was devoted to her children and wanted them to know just how deeply they were loved by their parents and by God, offering consistent and unwavering support to them throughout her life. She wrote letters to them on their birthdays, on many holidays, and especially when difficult things happened - always emphasizing what she valued most about each of them. When she and Warren traveled, she left each child a letter, just in case.

Sallie’s friends were precious to her. She gathered annually with her Omega group (a high school service organization) and learned to Zoom with them through the pandemic. Sallie was a lifelong, loyal friend to many.

Sallie was fascinated by the lives of everyone she cared about. She peppered her family and friends with dozens of questions to learn more about how they were doing and what they were up to. She enjoyed pulling up a chair to listen. She created a home where all people were welcome, and she drew them in by taking an interest in the things that mattered to them.

Sallie was loving, authentic and fair-minded. She valued justice and doing the right thing. She pushed for change and stood her ground with love. She defended marriage equality, discussed ethics often, led values clarification groups for teens, and set a strong example by her actions. She was grateful for the privileges she enjoyed and keenly aware of them.

In 1971, when desegregation was struggling for a foothold in the Dade County Public Schools, Sallie and her family embraced the ideal of an equal educational system. She and several mothers started an After School House at Carver Elementary where children came in the afternoon to play, get help with homework, and enjoy a snack. The program helped instill confidence and stability in the lives of many children.

Sallie did not like to be the center of attention. (In fact, she wouldn’t like the attention of this long obituary.) Although she was often quiet, she made her opinions known. It was clear if she disagreed with you, but she always honored your opinions. Sallie could be determined and unwavering. When she believed in something, she fought hard for it. But when making her case, she always tried to do it with love and patience.

Sallie was committed to personal and spiritual growth – and she urged others to join her in the search for knowledge and meaning. She valued learning new things and creating opportunities for others to learn as well. When her children were young, she always provided outlets for creativity (e.g., decoupage, candle making, puppets, papier marché). She also helped create a group for women to learn about personal finance and investing, and she treasured music (piano in particular), the theatre, and live sports.

But oh, how Sallie loved to read! In the evenings, Sallie was typically in the wing chair in the living room, reading and contemplating something. Two of her favorite authors were Henri Nouwen and Fredrick Beuchner, but she also liked a good mystery. She enjoyed playing games with the family and friends, and gave all of her children a fondness for group games like charades. She had a great sense of humor, an infectious laugh, and a keen appreciation for quick wit.

Sallie adored Biscayne Bay, and she spent many weekends at Stiltsville. She cooked for days before taking the family there for a weekend, always including friends of all ages. Her children remember her standing on the upper porch, laughing with her husband and friends while eating Texas Trash and Rice Krispie treats, watching her children and their friends fish, swim, explore the flats, and sunbathe. She loved to bring everyone together to have fun.

Sallie appreciated nature, and in particular birds. In the last decade of her life, she took great pleasure in keep squirrels away from her birdseed by greasing the pole from the ground to the feeders. She laughed and laughed when they slid down unhurt before they could reach the food.

Sallie’s selflessness extended throughout her life. She and Warren took a condo in Durham, NC when their granddaughter, Emma, was diagnosed with Rett Syndrome. They spent every Spring through Fall helping care for Emma, taking her to and from school, doctor’s appointments, and running countless trips to the pharmacy. She and Warren balanced this with visits to their other children and grandchildren, while also returning to Miami frequently to care for Sallie’s own mother, who died two years ago, just shy of 104. Sallie made innumerable trips to East Ridge to visit with her mother and take her a Caramel Frappuccino, one of her mother’s last pleasures. That was Sallie – doing the kind thing, the right thing, the loving thing.

Sallie will be missed dearly by all who knew her. She leaves us a legacy of love, laughter, and a spirit of fairness. Although we are not able to have a service during these unusual times, please consider sharing a memory or story on the Tribute Wall. We the family would appreciate knowing more about how Sallie brought light into your life.

Sallie is survived by her husband Warren of 62 years, her four children: Rutledge, Ruth (Mark), Warren (Heather), and Frances (Joe); 6 granddaughters (Reese, Kadi, Eliza, Laine, Emma and Drew); and her brother, Joe Morton Creel. The family will hold a private service, releasing her ashes near the mouth of Biscayne Bay. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Rettsyndrome.org or the organization/cause of your choice in honor of Sallie.

Robert A. Porlick
May 24, 1927 - November 6, 2020

Robert A. "Bob" Porlick, a longtime usher at First Coral Gables, passed away on Friday, November 6, 2020, at the age of 93 years, in Aberdeen, NJ. Born in Chicago, IL, on May 24, 1927, he had fond memories of his early years in Dayton, MI, before he moved to Miami, FL ("The Capitol of the Western Hemisphere") as a child. Proud Navy Veteran (PO1), graduate of Riverside Military Academy and Purdue University (BSEE), Master Electrician, Electrical Engineer Extraordinaire, Master Storyteller, Slayer of Fish and Terror of Lobsters, Lover of Life, his gregariousness and good humor earned him many friends, and his passing leaves a large hole in the world.

He is preceded in death by Mary Lou, his beloved wife of 52 years and his "Pearl of Great Price". He is survived by his children: Susan Holley; Kathleen Abrams and companion Lee Duttkin; Thomas Porlick and wife Debbie; his grandchildren, Marie Chandler and husband Nolan; David Abrams and wife Rachell; Lauren Abrams and husband Dan; Thomas Porlick; Melissa Porlick; and his great-granddaughter, Morgan Chandler. In lieu of flowers, please make a charitable donation to the Florida Grand Opera (www.fgo.org).

Gustavo ARENCIBIA
August 18, 1933-November 5, 2020

Gustavo Arencibia was born in Havana, Cuba in 1933. He passed away on November 5, 2020 after a protracted illness.

Gustavo had a fifty-year career in the airline industry, fueled by his passion for travel—he visited over 30 US states and more than 80 countries—and his love for painting. A prolific amateur artist, he was renowned for his playful use of color and his images of distant places. He wrote a book which chronicles his artwork, Gustavo the International Painter: Viajando y Pintando.

Gustavo lost his wife of many years in 2015. But he had an abiding love of people, and a joyful and happy spirit. He loved First Coral Gables, and considered it “home.” He will be missed by all who knew him.

Ann Eldredge Middelthon 
October 4, 1941-October 12, 2020

Ann Eldredge Middelthon, 79, was born and raised in Coral Gables, Florida, where she lived the majority of her life. She moved and has lived in Hilton Head, SC for much of the past 15 years to enjoy the beauty of the beaches with her family, friends and grandchildren. She passed away peacefully on October 12, 2020 in Atlanta, GA.

Ann was born in Coral Gables to Louisa Candler Eldredge and Alfred T. Eldredge, Sr. on October 6, 1941. She graduated from Coral Gables High School, then briefly attended Florida State University before marrying her high school sweetheart, William R. Middelthon, Jr. She was involved in Junior League of Miami, First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables, and Thomas Armour Youth Ballet in Miami, Florida. She loved her Miami Dolphins, having been a season ticket holder for almost 50 years, and cherished her many lifelong friendships from Miami. Her charitable commitments are numerous, and thanks to her great grandfather, Asa G. Candler, her love of Coca-Cola was never-ending up until her passing. Ann was preceded in death by her mother (who was a generous benefactor to our church’s Louisa Candler Eldredge Memorial Pipe Organ) and father, as well as her brother, Alfred T. Eldredge, Jr. She is survived by her sons, William "Billy" Middelthon, III, and D. Matthew Middelthon, married to Lorin S. Middelthon, and her four grandchildren, Carroll G. Middelthon (26), Patrick M. Middelthon (24), Amanda J. Middelthon (17) and J. Callan Middelthon (14).

Martha C. Hobbs 
March 21, 1925-October 4, 2020

Martha C. Hobbs passed peacefully, surrounded by love, on October 4, 2020 at her home after a long and full life. Martha was born on March 21, 1925 in Macon, Georgia, the only child of Hollis Franklin and Gustava McLellan Calhoun and lived in Eufaula, Alabama and Charleston, South Carolina until moving to Coral Gables in 1963.

Martha had a long career in government, working for the US Army Corps of Engineers, the US Coast Guard Marine Inspection, the US Navy-Charleston, US Customs Agency Service and the IRS Intelligence Division. She also volunteered in many organizations - as President of the United Daughters of the Confederacy, President of her chapter of the National Society of Southern Dames, member of P.E.O. Chapter K, Gilded Lilies, Coral Gables Garden Club, Friends of the University of Miami Ring Theater, Coral Gables Music Club, University of Miami Women's Guild, University of Miami Cancer Association and the Highlands North Carolina Womens Club.  Martha was a member of Riviera Country Club and a prior member of Coral Gables Country Club, Wildcat Cliffs Country Club, Highlands, NC, Sapphire Valley Country Club, Cashiers, NC, Dothan Country Club, Dothan, Alabama and Ocean Reef Club.

She was a beloved friend, mentor and an inspiration to many. Martha was predeceased by her husbands, Stanley S. Schachter and Walter A. Hobbs, Jr. At her request, a private graveside service was held. A celebration of her life will be held at a later date due to the Coronavirus pandemic. For those wishing to make a memorial contribution, they can be made in Martha C. Hobbs' name to: Easter Seals of So. Florida, PO Box 527400, Miami, FL 33152-7400.

Vivian André 
February 14, 1920-September 9, 2020

Vivian André (née Horne) was born on Valentine’s Day 1920 in Tifton, Georgia.  Her family moved to Miami to live in a warmer climate, and here they remained. Vivian was a beautiful woman with an effervescent, outgoing personality.  She was an avid skater who met her husband-to-be, Robert King André, while at the rink.  They were married in the chapel at First Coral Gables on October 26, 1941.  Both have been lifelong members of the church.

Vivian’s most profound joy was raising four children: Paulette Gaar André, Robert André, Patricia André (d. 2013) and Pamela André. She was an excellent cook, renowned for her Southern fried chicken and chicken & dumplings.  A member of the Coconut Grove Sailing Club, Vivian was also a competitive sailor, winning several of the races in which she participated. She also enjoyed square dancing, was a member of the Coral Gables Junior Woman’s Club and of the Theatre Pipe Organ Society of America, and served as a Boy Scout Troop den mother. A savvy businesswoman, Vivian was involved in several commercial ventures.  She was the owner and property manager of a warehouse in Miami, operated André Home Beer, and grew Christmas trees on her property in North Carolina.  

Vivian André passed away at the age of 100.  She was much loved, because she loved much.  She is survived by her children, eight grandchildren and eleven great-grandchildren, all of whom will miss her.  

M. Lewis Hall, Jr.
August 14, 1924-August 31, 2020

M. Lewis Hall, Jr, died at home surrounded by his family and friends shortly after his 96th birthday. Lew was born in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. He served as an officer in the Army Air Corp during WWII, then graduated from Princeton University and Harvard Law School. In 1950, after clerking for the Florida Supreme Court, Lew returned to Miami and joined the law firm of Hall & Hedrick where he practiced for over 50 years. That same year he married the love of his life, Muriel Fisher Hall, a native Miamian. The two soulmates recently celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary. Lew was an enthusiastic civic leader serving as president of most every organization he joined. He served as the campaign chairman of U.S. Senator Spessard Holland, president of the Dade County Bar Association, president of the Orange Bowl Committee, president of the Coral Gables Youth Center foundation, the Miami Club and the first vice-president of the Council of 100. Besides the law, Lew's passion was raising cattle on his ranch in DeSoto County and his farm outside Elsberry Missouri. He spent countless hours on horseback on the prairie working his cows. Lew dearly loved to hunt and constantly entertained his friends on weekend hunting trips at the ranch. Lew was a wonderful man, great father, and good friend to everyone he met. He is survived by his wife, Muriel, his two sons, M. Lewis Hall, III, his wife Kay, their children Miles and Emily and Judge Don T. Hall, his wife Cynthia and their children Parker and Casey, his brother, Judge Vince Hall and cousin J.P. Vaughn. He was preceded in death by his brother, Frank Hall, and his granddaughter, Allison.

Rev. Judy Lee Wheeler Loehr
October 10, 1942-July 21, 2020

Rev. Judy Loehr, past choir director of First Coral Gables, died suddenly at her home in Antioch, TN, on July 21. She had a distinguished career as pastor, music minister and choral conductor at a number of Methodist churches.

Rev. Loehr held a Master of Divinity from Vanderbilt Divinity School, a Masters in Music from the Peabody Conservatory of Johns Hopkins University, and a Bachelor of Music in Voice and Piano from Baylor University. As Musical Director of the United Methodist Festival Choir for 13 years, she toured Europe, Russia, Australia, New Zealand and Hawaii. She was a wonderful counselor who had the inimitable quality of making those she spoke with feel so very important. She was a gentle soul with a fierce resolve to work for equality for all people. She welcomed everyone with open arms and generously shared love and laughter with those around her. Her never-ending thirst for learning, her keen sense of style, her artistic flair, her quick wit, her love of ministry and her devotion to family and friends will be missed.

Flora Rodriguez
August 17, 1926 - July 5, 2020

Flora A. Rodriguez passed away peacefully on July 5 at her residence in Coral Gables at the age of 93. Flora was born in Havana, Cuba. She is survived by her children: Carlos Rodriguez (Bertie) and Jorge Rodriguez (Debra); five grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren. 

Carol W. Harrison
January 13, 1917-June 21, 2020

Carol Woodring Harrison, age 103, of Miami, Florida, passed away on Sunday, June 21, 2020, at the home of her daughter in Monterey, Tennessee.

Carol was born on January 13, 1917, in East Chicago, Indiana, to the late Floyd L. and Florence May Bishton Woodring. Her family moved to Miami in 1923. Carol graduated in 1935 from Miami Senior High where she was active in many social clubs and served as Clubs Editor for the school’s yearbook during her junior year. It was at Miami Senior High that Carol met her future husband, the late James R. Harrison III. They married on New Year’s Eve in 1938.

For almost 40 years, Mrs. Harrison worked as a housewares buyer for Saunders Hardware in Miami. She was well known for her cheerful disposition and ability to locate hard-to-find products for her patrons, which included many prominent Miami citizens.

Mrs. Harrison was a past president of the Miami-Dade County PTA and once a member of the Dade County Council. Carol was an avid reader, a poet and writer, an accomplished artist and painter, a fascinating storyteller, and traveled extensively all over North America. She was a long-time member of the First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables, Florida.

Whether she was called Carol, Honey, Mommie, Mother, or Meema, her kindness and sweetness will be long remembered in the hearts of those who knew her.

Patricia Lathrop Crow
MAY 7, 1927 - JUNE 3, 2020

Patricia Lathrop Crow, longtime resident of Coral Gables, passed away peacefully in Santa Fe, NM, at the age of 93, with family at her bedside. She moved from Worcester, MA, to Miami in 1950 after attending Skidmore College and working at the United States Merchant Marine Academy as a legal secretary. In Miami, she worked for Lon Worth Crow Company, a real estate and mortgage banking company, where she met her future husband, Miami native and businessman, Lon Worth Crow Jr. She then became Executive Assistant to James Knight at the Miami Herald. Pat believed in giving back and had a long history of philanthropic contributions and service. Pat was an active community leader in Miami-Dade, serving on boards of the Easter Seals, Family Counseling Services, Florida International University, U.M. Women's Guild, New World School of the Arts, Patrons of the Museum of Science, and Coral Gables Garden Club. Supporting education was a lifetime interest of Pat's, having established scholarships at the University of Miami for the School of Business and the Frost School of Music, and Arts scholarship at FIU. She was clever, had a great sense of humor, boundless energy, and an infectious laugh. She was always up for an adventure, a game of bridge, a shared laugh, or a good book. She was an achiever and filled a wall with awards for distinction in recognition of her many accomplishments, but the role she treasured most was as partner to Lon—and after his passing, to Jack Bennett—and that of mother and grandmother. Many times, Lon acknowledged that his success in business was due in no small part to Pat, whose beauty, grace, charm, and wit was compelling to all. She is survived by her children Michael Crow (Kathy Clarke Crow) and Karen Crow (Liz Bremner), and stepchildren Lon Worth (Worth) Crow III (Linda Crow) and Graham Crow (Peggy Crow), and thirteen grandchildren. A wonderful role model, she always set the bar high and inspired us to love life, live for the moment, and make a difference in this world. Pat will forever be remembered as a wonderful mother, grandmother, and caring friend by all who knew and loved her. We loved her dearly and every day we will miss her. A Celebration of Life is pending at this time. Memorial donations in her name can be made to Fairchild Gardens in Miami or Coming Home Connections in Santa Fe. 

arva moore parks mccabe
January 19, 1939 - May 10, 2020

Arva Moore Parks, a towering Miami figure who gave shape to the city’s saga as a historian and who fought fiercely as a preservationist to save many of its most iconic landmarks, has died at home in Miami’s Shenandoah neighborhood. She was 81. 

Among the architectural and historic treasures that Parks helped save are the Biltmore Hotel and the Venetian Pool in Coral Gables, the Freedom Tower in downtown Miami and the Miami Marine Stadium.  Parks was a noted historian who documented Miami’s early years in a series of lively books and films, including the city’s official history, Miami: The Magic City. She was instrumental in the commissioning of a statue of Merrick that stands outside Coral Gables City Hall, and in the creation of a statue of Miami pioneer Julia Tuttle, whose key role in the city’s founding Parks felt had been overshadowed, near the Miami River. The skirt on the Tuttle figure bears scenes from Miami history, which was Parks’ idea. 

A proud Miami native, Parks grew up during the city’s post-World War II boom and witnessed downtown Miami’s peak, fall and revival — a resurgence she helped engender. As chair of the city’s planning and zoning board during the administration of Mayor Manny Diaz, she vocally supported both preservation of important landmarks and development of compatible, mixed-use urban projects that would bring life and commerce back to the same urban center where she went for movies, hamburgers and church as a girl. 
Arva Moore was born in Miami of Southern stock. Her father, Jack Moore, a lawyer, came to Miami in the 1930s at the height of the Great Depression. Parks said she learned her love of history, and her disdain for racial segregation and discrimination, from him. 

Parks wrote that her interest in preservation was sparked when she lived with her first husband, Robert Parks, and their children in a home on South Greenway Drive in the Gables. After they divorced, Parks married Robert McCabe, the educator who led and expanded what is today Miami Dade College, forming what would be one of Miami’s preeminent couples during their 21 years of marriage. McCabe died in 2014 at age 86. Parks is survived by two children, Carey Guerra of New York and Gregory Parks of Miami, and three grandchildren. Another son, Robert Parks, died two years ago. 

JOAN LALLAVE
September 25, 1933 - May 20, 2020

Joan was a devout Christian and a longtime member of First Coral Gables.

Joan worked for many years at the Riviera Country Club. After she retired, she became very active in the church.  She was in church every Sunday morning, when her health permitted, and she was a participant in the Art Class taught by Margaret Steele. She was especially fond of brotherly hugs by Pastor Roberto!

She leaves behind a family who grieves her loss, and many friends who will miss her.

Mary Hays Babcock
October 27, 1928 - May 16, 2020

Mary was born in Atlanta, Georgia. She earned a degree in both math and physics from Agnes Scott College, and on graduation day, married Charles I. Babcock, Jr., in 1949. Mary and Charlie raised their family in Coral Gables and remained there until their permanent move to Vero Beach in 1992. As devoted followers of Christ, they were deeply engaged in the greater Dade County community, in their local church, First United Methodist of Coral Gables, and in the Salvation Army. Mary and Charlie ministered together during 58 years of marriage before he died in 2007. Mary loved God and loved people and enjoyed serving on the local Salvation Army Board, tutoring students at Gifford Youth Achievement Center in Vero Beach, participating in the Community Bible Study, and encouraging multiple Christian ministries. Mary is survived by her daughter Evelyn Babcock of Dallas, Texas; son Calvin Babcock (Becky) of Miami; and daughter Lisa Babcock Taylor (Jim) of Vero Beach. Sadly, Mary's oldest child, Charles I. Babcock, III (Mary Anne) of Clearwater, passed away from cancer on March 24 of this year. Mary is also survived by her dear sister-in- law, Barbara Hays, of Atlanta, eight grandchildren, and seven great grandchildren.

Mary will be missed by the entire congregation at First Coral Gables.

GUIDO O. Diaz
September 28, 1937 - May 16, 2020

"Hermano Guido" surrendered his life to Jesus Christ at First Coral Gables, and because of that he was deeply grateful. He was important to our community, and our Latino congregation will miss him very much.

Robert William "Bob" Newkirk
March 25, 1927 - May 3, 2020

Robert “Bob” Newkirk, age 93, passed into new life after a brief illness. Bob joined the Navy at age 18 in 1945. He served his country as a Radar Operator, Seaman First Class, on the USS Delta in China and Japan at the end of World War II. He acquired tuberculosis during his military service and spent four years in a quarantine hospital in Booneville AR upon his return. After his recovery, he was able to attend the University of Arkansas using his GI Bill and graduated in 1955 with a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration. He has been a strong supporter of both the Veteran’s Administration and the Arkansas Razorbacks since that time. He was a member of the UA Razorback Club for many years. He married Marilyn Baird McCall of Little Rock AR in 1989. Bob became a Certified Public Accountant, with a long career in business financial management and auditing in oil and gas, aerospace, manufacturing, and insurance fields. He was President of the Tulsa World Trade Association 1982-83, a member of the Tulsa Sunrise Rotary Club (he was named Rotarian of the Year 1995-96), and also held District Rotary positions. 

Bob was a lifelong Methodist whose strong faith in God never wavered. He was a Certified Lay Speaker, served his church in leadership roles at the local church and district levels, teaching Sunday School, and singing in choir. He and Marilyn went on several international mission trips. Bob is survived by his daughter and son-in-law, Melanie and Larry Trook of Bixby, stepchildren Mark Merritt (Denver), Carolyn Squires (Austin), Cynthia McCall (Miami FL), and Jay McCall (Conway AR). He was preceded in death by his parents, his sister Dorothy Elizabeth Jones, and his beloved wife Marilyn (2016). Donations can be made in Bob’s memory to the United Methodist Committee on Relief (UMCOR) and Tulsa Rotary Club Sunrise Foundation.

Elsa Cortina
APRIL 14, 1926 – MAY 2, 2020

Elsa Cortina 94, was called home on May 2 into the arms of her Heavenly Father. She was a loving mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. Her faith, kindness, and generosity touched the lives of her family and friends alike and she was a blessing to all who knew her. 

She was preceded in death by her loving husband, Rev. Carlos Cortina, and is survived by her daughter, Elsa Kramer, her grandchildren Steve and Violet Kramer, Jeff Kramer and girlfriend Kelly Maichele and Matt and Ashley Kramer, 9 her great-grandchildren who warmed her heart and made her always smile, along with her loving sister in-laws, nieces and nephews and close friends. 

We love you and will miss you always but have the assurance that you are home and at peace and you heard “Well done, my good and faithful servant.”

James Raleigh Johnson
1924-April 20, 2020

James Raleigh Johnson, 96, passed away peacefully in his sleep on April 20, 2020. He was a US Navy WWII Veteran. He is remembered for his faithfulness, kindness, and service to The First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables, where he was a member for over 65 years. Raleigh volunteered at the church for over 25 years.

He is survived by his daughter Christene Diane Sandall, five grandchildren, eight great-grandchildren, sister-in-law Vi Johnson, and many nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his wife Margaret, his twin brothers Robert and Richard Johnson, and sister Ruth McClure.

He will be buried next to his wife at Miami Memorial Gardens.

Margo S. Wilt
September 3, 1946 - March 30, 2020

Margo S. Wilt, age 73, passed away on Monday, March 30, 2020 at her home in Miami, Florida. Born September 3, 1946 in Pontiac, Michigan, Margo graduated from Davison High School and received undergraduate and Master's degrees from Oakland University. After over 30 years as an elementary and middle school teacher in Davison Community Schools, Margo retired and spent the last decade traveling with her husband across the globe. Margo was a devoted wife, a loving mother, and she was enamored with her new granddaughter. She cherished spending time with her family, loved baking cookies for others, and was a generous and caring friend to all. Margo always turned friends into family. She adored her German daughter and grandkids, always stayed connected with her former exchange students, and shared a close bond with her dear friends in Miami. She was known for always giving gifts, cards, and sharing her travel points with others to enjoy. She remained a teacher and mentor to so many kids, always taking "field trips", buying books, and providing encouragement. She left a lasting impact on so many lives and will not be forgotten. Margo was preceded in death by her parents, Wallace and Maxine Weiberg. She is survived by her husband, William Wilt, her brother David (Kathy) Weiberg and sister Lori (Kevin) Crawford, her daughter Andrea (Robert) Rowe, and her granddaughter Anastasia Rowe. She leaves behind many cousins, nieces, nephews, the Kettler family in Germany, and friends all over the world who loved her dearly. In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting donations be made to Touching Miami with Love in West Homestead, Florida.

Maria Bravo
MARCH 18, 1932 – FEBRUARY 28, 2020

Maria Bravo was born on March 18, 1932 and passed away on February 28, 2020. She was a member of the Spanish-speaking congregation. She will be missed by all who knew her.

Joseph Henry Fisher
October 1, 1922 – FEBRUARY 24, 2020

Joseph Henry Fisher was born on October 1, 1922 in Attleboro, Mass., the only child of the late Joseph Albert and Havilah M. (Cooke) Fisher. After graduation from the Bentley School of Accounting and Finance, Boston, Mass., he enlisted in the Navy as an Aviation Cadet in 1942 and retired with the rank of Lieutenant Commander in 1963 after completing twenty one years of active duty as a Naval Aviator. He served in the Southwest Pacific area during WWII in Patrol Bombing Squadron 104, and was awarded the Distinguished Flying Cross, three Air Medals and the Purple Heart. His last tour of sea duty was aboard the aircraft carrier USS Forrestal, as the Officer in Charge of the Combat Information Center. He received a B.A. degree from Old Dominion University in 1963, a J.D. degree from the Cumberland School of Law of Samford University in 1966, and an LL.M. degree from Boston University in 1967. Mr. Fisher came to Miami in 1967 and worked at First National Bank of Miami. He later became an investor in real estate. He was a member of the Florida Bar, a Life Member of the Dade County Bar, a Real Estate Broker and served as an officer in the Greater Miami Real Estate Exchangors for many years. He was a loyal member of the Trinity Sunday School Class at First United Methodist Church of Coral Gables.

Joseph Travers Oliver Jr.
May 25, 1935 - January 19, 2020

On January 19, 2020, Joseph (Joe) Oliver Jr. went to be with his Lord at the age of eighty-four.  Joe was born to Joseph and Anna (Muldoon) Oliver on May 25, 1935 in Balboa, Panama City, Panama. He was a graduate of Balboa High School and went on to study at the University of Southern Mississippi. Joe is survived by his beloved wife of sixty-one years, Angela (Valentine) Oliver, their five children and their spouses, their eighteen grandchildren, and ten great-grandchildren. 

Joe’s life was profoundly shaped by his deep devotion and love for his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. His conviction was such that it carried over into every facet of his life. For many, Joe was affectionately known as “Coach”. He coached organized football throughout South Florida, mentoring young men at Miami Christian School, Columbus High School, Southwest High School, K-Land, and more. As a coach, Joe pushed his players to excel on and off the field, challenging them to not simply be better players, but also develop into mature young men. His love for the game, and his desire to see athletes come to know the Lord would eventually lead him into a career spanning thirty years as the Miami-Dade County Area Director of Fellowship of Christian Athletes. In this role, Joe ministered to and influenced thousands of student athletes, developing huddle groups, hosting the FCA Night of Champion, the Annual FedEx Orange Bowl Prayer Breakfast, and many more outreach events in the local South Florida communities. Joe was also the host of the weekly radio show, “More Than Winning” on 90.9 LifeFM. 

Outside of his professional life, Joe spent much of his time serving at church and enjoying quality time with his family. He taught High School Sunday School classes, led small groups, preached sermons, performed in Christmas pageants, sang in the choir, led youth groups and mission trips, and much more. It was evident to all who met Joe that he was incredibly proud of his family. He consistently showed his family love and care and sought every occasion and always found time to spend with all of them. Some of his favorite family activities included taking his grandchildren to Disney World, attending their sporting events, sitting through many ballet performances, having his family over to sing hymns, annual birthday trips to the Keys, and dressing up as Santa Claus for the kids on Christmas night. Joe’s legacy is that of one who pointed thousands to the Lord, whom he loved so dearly.